“It’s the pink week! It’s the pink week!” I exclaimed jumping up and down. I don’t think my parents ever witnessed me being so excited to go to Mass. At my home parish in Peoria, we had children process forward with the candles before Mass, and the “pink week” was when I always volunteered. I remember as a child being very excited about this week. Not only was pink my favorite color, but I figured once we got to the pink week, it was only a short week until Christmas. And, what kid wouldn’t be excited about that? Little did I know at the time, this week marks great joy and excitement which transcends the presents under the tree.

Now I know the color is rose, not pink. I would have concerned looks made at me from colleagues by referring to the color as pink, now that I am an adult. However, I still have that child-like joy and anticipation about this week. Something so big, so profound, so moving is about to enter into our lives. Not a gift under the tree, but a gift in our hearts. A gift that can transform us; a gift that can move us. If we unwrap the gift, accept it, acknowledge the goodness and joy it brings, this gift will move mountains. Any hurdle we encounter, any challenge that seems too big, this gift will help lift us and carry us through every-time. This gift is unlimited and inexhaustible. This gift is Jesus. The gift of Him entering into our lives and transforming us is the greatest gift we can anticipate. In Bishop Barron’s homily of this Gospel he says, “He will affect something in those who he invades, raising them to a level that no philosopher, moral reformer or prophet ever dreamed of. Jesus is not simply one more prophet but the incarnate Son of God. A bearer of the divine life, this life that cannot even in principle be earned, achieved, or merited, it can only be received as a gift.” Focus on this phrase with me, it can only be received as a gift. Jesus freely gives himself, all of Him, to those who receive Him. We need to be open, eagerly anticipating how He can invade us and transform us into disciples.

I feel like we are witnessing a crisis of faith in our church at this moment. I follow many Catholic news agencies, bloggers, and influencers on social media that seem to offer the doom and gloom of our times. Articles regarding low Mass attendance, suffering parish finances, the rise of the “nones,” low sacramental participation, weddings on the beach, the list goes on and on. If we were ever to find a time to anticipate this great gift, my goodness, we need to eagerly anticipate it now. Each of us is called to receive this gift and allow Him to invade our lives. Like all invasions, they spread. This is exactly what we need. An invasion. An invasion of Jesus transforming ourselves into disciples who are brave, bold and holy. We need an invasion to transform us into strong witnesses of the Gospel; stewards not just in believing but through our actions. Stewards who are inviting, welcoming, and hospitable. Stewards who are willing to challenge and be challenged. We have to have an invasion into our hearts and the hearts of others.

The time is now. If you have a family member who has been away from the church, invite them next week. If you have not received Confession in awhile, receive it. If you have been questioning your faith, meet with us. If you are fulfilled in your faith, pass it on.

As I watch my two twins grow too quickly before my eyes, I hope and pray that they encounter this gift. It is a gift that I cannot purchase for them, but one in which I share with them. Let us each pray that we can open our hearts to being transformed by His grace and be bold in sharing this gift with others.

Katie Price is the Coordinator for Stewardship at the Cathedral. She can be reached at [email protected].

Those of us who have been hanging around the Church for a few decades have noticed a disturbing trend: fewer people are in the pews. Fewer couples are getting married in the Church and fewer parents are baptizing their children. How has this happened and what are we going to do about it? There are many reasons for the decline in faith and participation in parish life, but I think much of it boils down to the fact that many people have not had a personal encounter with Jesus Christ, despite devout parents who took them to Mass and sent them to Catholic schools or religious ed.

 Too many of us have thought a relationship with the Church was the same as a relationship with Jesus Christ.

Statistics show that most Catholics do not believe a personal relationship with God or Jesus Christ is even possible, and few Catholics ever speak about their relationship with Christ to another person! But the Church is not the same as Jesus Christ. And a Christian cannot be a disciple without a relationship with Jesus.

Our recent scandalous history has made it easy for some to walk away from the Church. But those of us who have felt the loving presence of an attentive God or who have encountered Christ in the Sacraments cannot easily walk away. Those of us who remain have the responsibility for reversing the trend. We must speak of Jesus to others!

We must tell our great stories of answered prayer and redemption from sin in a way that invites others to their own experiences of Christ in His Church. We must find ways to introduce people to Jesus Christ, and Alpha is one way for us to do this.

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 I converted to Catholicism in 2011 and Alpha interested me because I thought it might challenge my belief system, and it sounded fun. The course did help me rethink some topics, but mostly I developed a stronger social network. Before Alpha, I went to mass and knew very few people. Now when attending, I have more people that I am acquainted with and have made a few new friends. I have experience with facilitation, and since Alpha was such a fun time, I decided that I would offer to volunteer at a table as a group helper. ~Leza Ulrich

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Alpha is a series of sessions that explore the basics of Christianity in a way that makes faith relevant to modern life. Each session starts with a meal, because food has a way of bringing people together and creating community. After the meal is a video talk on an aspect of Christianity like “Who is Jesus?” or “How Can I Have Faith?”. Finally, after the video, participants have a chance to share their thoughts and ideas on the topic through discussion in an honest, friendly and open environment.

 For a people unused to evangelization, Alpha is a tool we can employ to help others begin a relationship with Christ in the context of the Catholic Church.

Alpha is highly relational and deeply dependent on the Holy Spirit to guide both the hosts and guests to an experience of God. At the end of the Alpha series, guests are invited to continue to explore and deepen their relationship with Christ by being involved in RCIA or other faith formation opportunities at the Cathedral.

So, Why Alpha? Because we need to do something different, something evangelizing, something that can help us grow disciples! Evangelization is the task of every Christian disciple, and we need volunteers to plan and cook meals, serve as table hosts, and do the clean up. We need you to help launch the next Alpha in January. To volunteer contact Vicki Compton at [email protected] or at 522-3342.

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“ I invite all Christians, everywhere, at this very moment, to a renewed personal encounter with Jesus Christ.” Pope Francis

 Alpha epitomizes this very quote from the Pope. In a safe, hospitable environment ,you can find Jesus. No matter where you are in your life, this 12 week course will take you as far or farther in your journey to have that personal relationship . At each session, through video and discussion we are led toward a deeper understanding of just who this Jesus is and how He can become a part of our lives. During this past summer, I was part of the hospitality crew; we greeted everyone who came making each one feel welcome and prepared food that we shared. There is no better way to get to know someone than thru food and conversation. I meet people I would have never met and shared my own concerns and desires about how to be more open to Jesus. I felt safe and secure sitting around a table that I would be heard and understood. I ask that you consider coming and seeing for yourself-over 50 people took a chance at our first Cathedral Alpha and came. It may well be the beginning of that encounter that the Pope encourages us to have. ~Bev Smith

 I’ve been attending mass at Cathedral off and on for 20 years and this year became a registered parishioner. Alpha was my first opportunity to get to know people from the church at a deeper level. Over 12 weeks I grew closer to my table members by sharing knowledge, insights, laughter, tears, gifts, food, and plans for friendship in the future. I didn’t want Alpha to end, so am happy it will be offered twice a year at Cathedral. Watching the inspiring videos and discussing them helped me understand myself as a spiritual being and articulate my relationship with God. This program is for everyone regardless of where they’re at in life. It gave me a new meaning of church as an inclusive, rather than exclusive, place. I’m grateful to serve and be served in this ongoing program. ~Mary Frances

I am sitting down to write this on Tuesday morning of the past week. It is exactly three weeks until Christmas Day; are you ready? By the time you actually read this it will be just over two weeks until Christmas Day; are you ready? The secular world is working itself into its yearly frenzy of pre-Christmas hysteria while the Church in this holy season of Advent is inviting us to keep our focus on that which is most important: that the Lord Jesus will come again in glory with salvation for his people.

Are you ready?

This Sunday’s first reading from the Prophet Baruch gives us a wonderful vision of the full establishment of the Kingdom of God. Yes, the language is vivid and the imagery is mystical and, if we are not careful, we may find ourselves saying “isn’t that nice” with either a tongue-in-cheek cynicism or ultimately dismissing the vision as romanticized and something that is out of reach. Baruch was preaching to a people in exile, a people who were not where they wanted to be, a people who were not where God ultimately wanted them to be. Baruch wanted to remind the people of Israel that God was not done with them. Is it not the same for us?

Honestly, are we really where we think we should be, where God wants us to be as a people, as a society?

In the midst of our struggles, God wants us to know that greater things are still coming and that he is not done with us.

Being that this is the Second Sunday of Advent, enter John the Baptist. He always makes his appearance on this Sunday each year, whether we are hearing from Matthew, Mark, or Luke. This Sunday’s Gospel account from Luke does not give us the fire of John’s message, at least not yet this Advent season, but rather Luke presents John as the fulfillment of the prophecy of the Prophet Isaiah. The message is one that we know: fill in the valleys, bring the mountains low, make the rough plane smooth, and prepare a highway for the Lord. We know it. Do we own it? The work that needs to be done within, the conversion that Isaiah and John proclaim, is not easy but God will do his part if we let him.

Are you ready and willing?

As we hear from Paul’s Letter to the Philippians, Paul wants to remind us that God is at work in us and that his own divine life is  still being made manifest in each of us. This is how the vision of Baruch and the other prophets will be fulfilled. The Kingdom of God will only be made fully manifest once it has fully arrived in each and every heart. The valleys, hills, and planes of Isaiah are wonderful reminders of the work that needs to be done in my life and in yours.

May this Advent season shake us out of our complacency and renew our trust in the fact that, yes, the grace of God is seeking to work in each of us and that same grace can do great things, even the impossible, if we fully surrender ourselves to God’s power to save.

If we are waiting to see the fulfillment of the Kingdom of God, each of us must make sure that we are first allowing God to establish it in our own lives.Father Christopher House is the Rector of the Cathedral and serves in various leadership roles within the diocesan curia, namely Chancellor and Vicar Judicial.

I remember growing up in Catholic school and having to make construction paper Advent wreaths every single year! The little yellow flames would be cut out and held until each new candle was lit. Great idea, except for the fact that the chance you could find the flames greatly diminished as each week passed. I will bet over 50% of the wreaths never received a 4th flame! Of course by then, most kids in elementary school had moved on to Christmas. Christmas was not a day. It was an entire experience of vacation from school.

You may or may not have an Advent wreath in your home or office, but those flames are rather insignificant to the flame that should be burning in our hearts during this season. How are you finding ways to light your fire? How are you preparing the way for Christ to come into your life and the lives of those around you in a more profound way?

The ritual of an Advent wreath is a good idea for anyone. But don’t think that your preparations are done simply because you have one. You are called to be a flame to others during this season, reminding them of why we celebrate this time at all.

Each person is a candle to be lit, and you have the gifts, given to you by God, to light them. At Christmas, you want God to look at you and see all the light generated by those He lit through you. Now is the time. Don’t wait until Advent is almost over. You might not be able to find your own flames if you wait too long.

— Tracy Earl Welliver, MTS

Those of us who have been hanging around the Church for a few decades have noticed a disturbing trend: fewer people are in the pews. Fewer couples are getting married in the Church and fewer parents are baptizing their children. How has this happened and what are we going to do about it? There are many reasons for the decline in faith and participation in parish life, but I think much of it boils down to the fact that many people have not had a personal encounter with Jesus Christ, despite devout parents who took them to Mass and sent them to Catholic schools or religious ed.

Too many of us have thought a relationship with the Church was the same as a relationship with Jesus Christ.

Statistics show that most Catholics do not believe a personal relationship with God or Jesus Christ is even possible, and few Catholics ever speak about their relationship with Christ to another person! But the Church is not the same as Jesus Christ . And a Christian cannot be a disciple without a relationship with Jesus.

Our recent scandalous history has made it easy for some to walk away from the Church. But those of us who have felt the loving presence of an attentive God or who have encountered Christ in the Sacraments cannot easily walk away. Those of us who remain have the responsibility for reversing the trend. We must speak of Jesus to others!

We must tell our great stories of answered prayer and redemption from sin in a way that invites others to their own experiences of Christ in His Church. We must find ways to introduce people to Jesus Christ, and Alpha is one way for us to do this.

Alpha is a series of sessions that explore the basics of Christianity in a way that makes faith relevant to modern life. Each session starts with a meal, because food has a way of bringing people together and creating community. After the meal is a video talk on an aspect of Christianity like “Who is Jesus?” or “How Can I Have Faith?”. Finally, after the video, participants have a chance to share their thoughts and ideas on the topic through discussion in an honest, friendly and open environment.

For a people unused to evangelization, Alpha is a tool we can employ to help others begin a relationship with Christ in the context of the Catholic Church.

Alpha is highly relational and deeply dependent on the Holy Spirit to guide both the hosts and guests to an experience of God. At the end of the Alpha series, guests are invited to continue to explore and deepen their relationship with Christ by being involved in RCIA or other faith formation opportunities at the Cathedral.

So, Why Alpha? Because we need to do something different, something evangelizing, something that can help us grow disciples! Evangelization is the task of every Christian disciple, and we need volunteers to plan and cook meals, serve as table hosts, and do the clean up. We need you to help launch the next Alpha in January. To volunteer contact Vicki Compton at [email protected] or at 522-3342.

“ I invite all Christians, everywhere, at this very moment, to a renewed personal encounter with Jesus Christ.” Pope Francis

Alpha epitomizes this very quote from the Pope. In a safe, hospitable environment ,you can find Jesus. No matter where you are in your life, this 12 week course will take you as far or farther in your journey to have that personal relationship . At each session, through video and discussion we are led toward a deeper understanding of just who this Jesus is and how He can become a part of our lives. During this past summer, I was part of the hospitality crew; we greeted everyone who came making each one feel welcome and prepared food that we shared. There is no better way to get to know someone than thru food and conversation. I meet people I would have never met and shared my own concerns and desires about how to be more open to Jesus. I felt safe and secure sitting around a table that I would be heard and understood. I ask that you consider coming and seeing for yourself-over 50 people took a chance at our first Cathedral Alpha and came. It may well be the beginning of that encounter that the Pope encourages us to have. ~Bev Smith

I converted to Catholicism in 2011 and Alpha interested me because I thought it might challenge my belief system, and it sounded fun. The course did help me rethink some topics, but mostly I developed a stronger social network. Before Alpha, I went to mass and knew very few people. Now when attending, I have more people that I am acquainted with and have made a few new friends. I have experience with facilitation, and since Alpha was such a fun time, I decided that I would offer to volunteer at a table as a group helper. ~Leza Ulrich

I’ve been attending mass at Cathedral off and on for 20 years and this year became a registered parishioner. Alpha was my first opportunity to get to know people from the church at a deeper level. Over 12 weeks I grew closer to my table members by sharing knowledge, insights, laughter, tears, gifts, food, and plans for friendship in the future. I didn’t want Alpha to end, so am happy it will be offered twice a year at Cathedral. Watching the inspiring videos and discussing them helped me understand myself as a spiritual being and articulate my relationship with God. This program is for everyone regardless of where they’re at in life. It gave me a new meaning of church as an inclusive, rather than exclusive, place. I’m grateful to serve and be served in this ongoing program. ~Mary Frances

This weekend the church year begins anew as we begin the holy season of Advent, a name derived from the Latin word adventus, which means “the coming.” This holy season looks to the two comings of Christ; first, we look forward to our Lord’s return in glory at the end of time, and second, beginning December 17th, we look back remembering that our Lord came to us in time to be one with us in all things but sin. While it may not have the same depth of austerity as Lent, Advent is a penitential season where the words of the prophets echo to us from ages past to prepare a way for the Lord in our hearts and lives.

Even though the readings of Advent follow a three-year cycle, with Luke being this year’s primary Gospel, each of the four Sundays has its own consistent theme with its readings. The first Sunday gives us the theme of “Watch and Pray.” We may be tempted to focus on the dark imagery that is given us in Luke’s Gospel for this Sunday that speaks of Jesus’s return at the end of time, but once again we have to ask is it necessary to fear the justice of God? If we want to make life all about us and not care about our responsibilities to both God and neighbor then yes, fear the justice of God, but for those who strive to live a life pleasing to God, sinners though we are, the justice of God will result in salvation for those who earnestly seek the Lord.

I know that this time of year is a busy time for many of us, but I encourage you to not get swept away in the commotion. Advent is a beautiful season and even though it is penitential (thus the use of the color violet), it also possesses a subdued joy and peace. I encourage you to make use of this season and set aside some time for yourself with the Lord. May every nation, home, and heart make room for Christ, the Prince of Peace.

This coming Saturday, December 8th, is the Solemnity of Mary, the Immaculate Conception, patroness of our nation, diocese, and cathedral. This is a holy day of obligation. Normally holy days that fall on a Saturday have their obligation to attend Mass lifted but this is not the case for the Immaculate Conception due to her patronage of our nation. Because it is a weekend, we will maintain our normal Mass schedule but not have a noon Mass on Saturday. The obligation to attend Mass for both the holy day and the First Sunday of Advent can be done by attending two Masses in one of the following ways: Friday evening/Saturday evening, Friday evening/any time on Sunday, Saturday morning/Saturday evening, or Saturday morning/any time Sunday; however, one cannot go to Mass on Saturday morning or Saturday evening and have it count for both. You can also attend Mass Saturday evening and any time on Sunday since the Mass of Saturday evening is still on December 8th, even though the prayers and the readings will be for the First Sunday of Advent.

I know that this makes some wrinkle their brow and it is an anomaly in liturgical and canon law, like when Christmas fell on Monday last year and the question of Sunday obligation and the Christmas obligation. In short, being asked to attend Mass twice in a span of a few days will not harm anyone ☺. Blessings to you and yours for joyous and peace-filled Advent!

 Father Christopher House is the Rector of the Cathedral and serves in various leadership roles within the diocesan curia, namely Chancellor and Vicar Judicial.

Waiting is not always so easy. If you lack patience, like me, you probably want whatever is going to happen to just happen already. I remember waiting on the births of my children. There was the time I sat with my dying father in the hospital. One year, we waited to see if our oldest child got into the college of his choice, or any college at all, which was nerve-wracking.

So, to make the time pass more easily, and because it is prudent and wise, we make preparations. We put together nurseries, go over last will and testaments, and look through endless college mailings. Then, when the event finally happens or our fate is unveiled, the preparation ends. Either you have prepared well or you didn’t.

Unlike events in our lives that only happen once, we have been through Advent many times before. Even though this is the case, when Christmas arrives many of us will think we missed it again, and next year will be the year we really get into Advent. Of course, there is no promise of next year. What if you knew this was your last Advent ever?

I once read a book about how to live your life as if you only had one year to live. The author said that doing this provides incentive for a real commitment to living life to its fullest. You notice things for the first time. You make plans that you always put off. You tell people what you always wanted to say.

I hope all who read this have many wonderful years ahead of them. However, let’s approach this Advent like it is our last. I bet Christmas will seem that much sweeter. And who knows, we may find a new and improved way to live all year long.

Tracy Earl Welliver, MTS is the Director of Parish Community and Engagement for LPI, Inc. He has a BA in theology from DeSales University and a MTS from Duke Divinity School.

Recently, the Pew Research Center came out with a study saying that the majority of Americans believe that it is not necessary to believe in God to be moral and have good values. A 2011 study on the question reflected that 49 percent believed that it was not necessary, while in 2017—only six years later—that number shifted to nearly 56 percent. I found it most interesting that these numbers were not only influenced by the increase of those who are atheist and irreligious; the numbers had also risen amongst believers—Protestant and Catholic.

The outcome of this study begs the questions: What is morality really all about? Is it just arbitrary and made up by society? Is morality just about being a good person? Or is it about something deeper? If there is no God, then who defines what is a “good person” or the characteristics of “good moral values”?

Those who would subscribe to the irrelevance of God for the moral life may also hold—not necessarily, but probably—a generally less demanding personal moral responsibility. Some of the same people may say something along the lines of, “Well I haven’t killed anyone… so I am a pretty good person.” While it is certainly good that murder is considered a moral evil, it is hardly the only requirement.

What would our answer be to the question of God’s relevance to the moral life?

As a Christian people who come together every Sunday, our presence together says that acknowledging the existence of God and having a relationship with him is important. Our coming together to worship—even though we often fail to be the best we can be and even though we don’t find deep fulfillment in our world—says that we have come together to encounter the God that can change everything. Our communal prayer as a Christian people helps to show that is it not only loving others that is necessary, because in first loving God, we come to not only love others but love them as fully as possible.

In Mark 12:28B-34, we hear of a story that speaks to the question of the relationship between morality and the belief in God. In the story, a man approaches Jesus and asks him about the moral life: “What is the first of the commandments?” Essentially, “How should I act and how should I be as a person?” Jesus answers, “The first is this: Hear, O Israel! The Lord our God is Lord alone! You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength. The second is this: You shall love your neighbor as yourself” (emphasis added).

In other words, morality flows from our love of God! While one is not more important than the other—loving God or others is not mutually exclusive—there is a right order in which they should develop. Morality is not just about arbitrary laws, but about the relationships of love that we have with both God and others.

Morality is about the law of the heart, the law of love. Since God is love, God and our moral lives are thus at the heart of who we are and who we are called to be. Yet, as shown in the Pew study, oftentimes we want to reverse the teaching of Jesus. We want to love our neighbor…and then show our love for God if it will end up proving beneficial.

Certainly, there are people in our lives whom we may personally know to live morally upright lives even though they do not believe in God. That, however, does not mean that those values didn’t come from the truths that religion reveals and proclaims. Many who say that belief in God is not necessary for morality take for granted that the whole of Western civilization was founded on the principles of Christianity.

One of these fundamental teachings that is taken for granted is Christianity’s deep and intrinsic understanding of human dignity: that each human life is sacred. Our God did not just create us as blobs of flesh, blood, and brain. He created us uniquely in his own imageand likeness. We are called to a radical love of others because of this inherent dignity.

Even if someone may not intellectually believe in God, I think their moral uprightness of selflessness and charity nonetheless point to his existence. Without God, the divine source of reality, from where would come this intrinsic, sacred dignity? We act as moral persons because deep down we know that each person is created by God, that each person is another Christ before us. We cannot love God fully without loving our neighbor, and we cannot love our neighbor fully without loving God.

As Christians, are we adding or subtracting to the conclusion of the Pew study? Our witness can either greatly help or hurt society’s understanding of the intimate relationship that exists between the love of God and love of our neighbor. Do we show that our first love of God directly impacts love of our neighbor in the Church parking lot after Mass; in the grandstands of our sporting events; in our internet browsing; or in the hallways of our schools? Our relationship and love of God can never be separated or follow after love of others.

Lastly, I think the Church’s Feast of All Saints completely contradicts the outcome of the Pew study. Each one of us is called not just to be a “good person” or to live a mediocre moral life, but to love radically—to be a saint. And who were the saints? The saints were men and women who knew God and loved others radically because of it. Their love of others was never separated from their love of God.

As I was thinking and praying about this study I thought about St. Mother Teresa. One story from her life that I came across beautifully illuminates her supreme love of God.

One day, Mother Teresa took in a woman off the streets of Calcutta. Her body was a mess of open sores infested with bugs. Mother Teresa patiently bathed her, cleaning and dressing her wounds.

The woman never stopped shrieking insults and threats at her. Mother Teresa only smiled.

Finally, the woman snarled, “Sister, why are you doing this? Not everyone behaves like you. Who taught you?”

She replied simply, “My God taught me.” When the woman asked who this god was, Mother Teresa kissed her on the forehead and said: “You know my God. My God is called love.”

Deacon David Stavarz is a transitional deacon for the Diocese of Cleveland. He is a graduate of Borromeo College Seminary and is currently finishing his formation at St. Mary Graduate Seminary, in Cleveland, Ohio.

 

There’s something very special about the first Sunday of Advent — singing the familiar Advent hymns and lighting the first Advent candle. I always feel a thrill of anticipation that Christmas is just around the corner.

This year, I’ll be celebrating Christmas in The Gambia, a small west African country, where I’m spending the winter helping my husband run his tourist lodge. So, my prep had to start a little earlier than in previous years, and I actually found it hard to get into the Christmas spirit.

In the end, this extra time gave me the opportunity to concentrate on the true meaning of Advent, a time of waiting and preparation and a time to consider more deeply the miracle of the Incarnation.

So, this year, I’m going to focus on celebrating this season of preparation with patience and attention. I hope these ideas will help you experience Advent to its fullest.

Read to feed your soul
I’m being very intentional about what I’m reading this Advent and taking a break from my usual fare of novels and biographies to concentrate on books that feed my soul. A book of Advent meditations like Paula Gooder’s “The Meaning Is in the Waiting” opens my mind to new and broader ideas about Advent. There are plenty of other options to choose from: “The Advent of Christ: Scripture Reflections to Prepare for Christmas” or “Sacred Reading for Advent and Christmas 2017-2018,” by the Apostleship of Prayer, the Pope’s Worldwide Prayer Network.

And instead of following your favorite source for news and entertainment, turn to more spiritual inspiration online like Busted Halo, Creighton University’s Praying Advent website, or this blog post from the Rev. Dr. James A. Kowalski of the Church of St. John the Divine in New York City.

Meditate on being patient
This year, I want to focus more on the spiritual meaning of Advent, on the significance of waiting actively in anticipation of Christ’s birth. I’ve found it’s easy to get caught up with the endless preparations for Christmas, so I want to slow down, devote time to meditation, and deepen my understanding of the mystery of Christ’s Incarnation.

Each morning, I’ll be spending time with a series of Advent meditations. There are many Advent meditation books available, including “Waiting for Christmas” by Fr. Richard Rohr or “Watch for the Light” by Dietrich Bonhoeffer and others. You could also use a YouTube meditation like this one from Pope Francis. Follow a mini-study course like Stephen Cottrell’s “Do Nothing Christmas Is Coming” or use Busted Halo’s Advent Surprise Calendar with daily inspiration and challenges for a more spiritual Advent season.

Pray daily
I know I need God’s help to slow down and wait with patience — I’m not naturally a patient person! Using the thoughts and ideas I’ve read as a basis for my prayers, I can ask for God’s help to see how he is breaking into my life, and pray for others who need his help and healing at this time of year. I also like to use this “Prayer for Embracing the Wait and Patience of Advent” to help express my thoughts.

Reach out to others
While Advent is a time for inner reflection, focusing solely on ourselves tempts us to neglect our call to be good neighbors. St. James spoke very directly about how our faith must ultimately result in action: “Faith of itself, if it does not have works, is dead.” Turning our inward Advent reflections into outward actions shows that God is truly working in our lives.

This Advent, I’m planning to show God’s love to others in a practical way by donating to Send a Cow, a charity that provides farm animals and tools to families in Africa and Lend With Care, another that offers microloans to people in developing countries. Other ways to reach out include sending gifts to those serving overseas, volunteering at a homeless shelter, or inviting a student who’s away from home to share Christmas with you.

Plan with intention
Sometimes, the endless tasks on our to-do list can end up consuming our time and attention, making it all but impossible to focus on our spiritual life. With a little intention, we can learn to focus on God as we do these necessary tasks by praying for the recipients of each gift we wrap, mulling over something we’ve read as we stir the cookie batter, or making a mental list of the things we’re grateful for while standing in a long line. I’m hoping that by cultivating a spirit of patience while anticipating the celebration of Christ’s coming, I’ll rediscover the true meaning of Advent this year.

Elizabeth Manneh is a freelance writer, sharing her time between the UK and The Gambia, West Africa. This article is used with permission from Busted Halo and can be found here: https://bit.ly/2zhfZ4l