Every Christmas for nearly 30 years, my husband’s mother sent new Christmas ornaments to us and the children. There are creamy white Belleek castles and shamrocks and angels; engraved brass Christmas trees and stars; large globes covered with family artwork – enough to start the kids off on their own trees when it’s time.
This year, Mom couldn’t give us our ornaments even though she’d picked them out. Suzanne Christmyer passed away soon after Thanksgiving, having lived a long full life and loved by her children and grandchildren. She was nearly 90.
If you’ve lost a family member, you know what it’s like going into the holidays. They leave a life-sized hole that sometimes seems as solid as they were, alive. I never thought much about those ornaments or what they’d mean, but last week as I took them out, unwrapped them one by one and hung them on the tree, they brought a rush of memories. I felt her presence, heard her laugh, remembered how much she loved us all. In that room by the tree, it’s as if she’s with us still.
“With us” is the gift God gave us on the first Christmas. We were as good as dead to him, but he didn’t want to lose us. He wanted us to know how much he loves us. Not just after our time on earth, which is how long we have to wait to see our loved ones, but now.
Here are just some of the situations in which God is with us, according to his Word:
When we’re afraid: “Be strong and of good courage; be not frightened, neither be dismayed; for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.” – Joshua 1:9
When we’re in trouble: “Be strong and of good courage, do not fear or be in dread of them: for it is the Lord your God who goes with you; he will not fail you or forsake you.” – Deuteronomy 31:6
When we feel abandoned or weak: “I have chosen you and not cast you off; fear not, for I am with you, be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my victorious right hand.” – Isaiah 41:9b-10 When we’re persecuted: “The Lord has taken away the judgments against you, he has cast out your enemies. The King of Israel, the Lord, is in your midst; you shall fear evil no more.” – Zephaniah 3:15
When we’re sad or near death: “Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I fear no evil; for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff, they comfort me.” – Psalm 23:4
Not only does he promise to be with us, we can’t get away from him and no one and nothing can get between us! “Whither shall I go from thy Spirit? Or whither shall I flee from thy presence? If I ascend to heaven, thou art there! If I make my bed in Sheol, thou art there! If I take the wings of the morning and dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea, even there thy hand shall lead me, and thy right hand shall hold me.” – Psalm 139:7-10
“For I am sure that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.”– Romans 8:38-39
If you’re feeling far from God this week in spite of Christmas, curl up by the tree with your Bible and read some of these other ways God is with you and the things He will do for you: John 14:16-17, Zephaniah 3:17, Isaiah 57:15, Exodus 33:13-14.
“I’m with you always, to the close of the age” Jesus told his disciples in Matthew 28:20. And he has said, “I will never leave you nor forsake you!” As you celebrate the coming of Emmanuel, may you experience God’s presence in a very special way.
Sarah Christmyer is a writer for Ascension Presents Blog. This article first appeared here: http://media.ascensionpress.com/2015/12/22/christmas-witness-gods-presence-around/
I distinctly remember the first time I went on a retreat. It was my first year of seminary and during Christmas break all of us seminarians at Bishop Bruté (the college seminary our diocese uses in Indianapolis) spent a few days before returning to “the Castle” in prayer and recollection at St. Meinrad Seminary (actually, one of the theology seminaries our diocese also uses). It is a picturesque place – looking out over the rolling, tree-covered, hills of rural Indiana; a peaceful one – away from the busy-ness of the world, the excitements of Christmas back with family, and the efforts and fraternity of seminary life; and one permeated with the prayers of the monks who live there – marked by the hourly chiming of their bell tower prominently standing over the town. But it is not so much those delights that I recall here, but the power of that place to draw me into prayer.
Here at Cathedral, among plenty of other things certainly, we also have begun again for the season to use the Latin responses at the Sanctus, Mysterium Fidei, and Agnus Dei. It is one simple way to re-open our hearts to the Lord. How deeply language touches us. That’s the power that we’re trying to capture with this change. These are parts of the Mass that the Church, as she has for centuries, encourages us to know in Latin. Why? Because the world does know them! I mean that! I’ve seen it! It is the most incredible, universal, catholic, thing ever to be able to go to Mass anywhere on the planet, and at those points of the Mass realize we can sing together those very same prayers. The Sanctus, the great song of the angels sung above Bethlehem at Christ’s birth, and the Agnus Dei, that central prayer of every Christian begging the Lamb of God, Who takes away the sins of the world, to have mercy on us, now and at our deaths, are probably familiar.
Around this time of year, people from a variety of cultures across the world are running around trying to prepare for Christmas. Some are getting their homes ready for guests. Some are getting stressed out with shopping. How do Christians, specifically Catholic Christians, prepare for Christmas? To many Catholics, the obvious answer is Advent.
When I was a nominal Catholic, I liked to pretend that I knew a lot about Catholicism. Realistically, I knew slightly less than the average 7-year-old knows about the workings of a combustible steam engine. Back then, for me, Advent was the Catholic word for Christmas. I was, for a lack of a better term, a theological idiot.
Give, give, give
Last weekend, as I was greeting people and shaking hands after Mass, I said to a few parishioners, “Happy New Year!” Some of the glances and puzzled looks that I received in return gave me the impression that for a few, I really took them off guard—and someone even warned me that I was a bit early for ushering in the new year.
While I’m not sure it’s ever necessarily been the practice to make resolutions at the beginning of a liturgical year, I think this ‘new beginning’ does present us with a perfect opportunity: to examine our spiritual lives with fresh eyes; to ask the Lord to illumine those ways in which He is calling us to grow deeper in the mystery and in the practice of our faith; and to resolve to adhere to some simple and achievable practices in this coming year. Ask yourself in prayer this week,
Here are a few ideas to get you started:
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For much of the world the Christmas season has arrived; or I suppose one could say, it arrived several weeks ago!
“On this first Sunday of Advent, when we begin to count the days separating us from the birth of the Savior … we have considered the reality of our Christian vocation: how our Lord has entrusted us with the mission of attracting other souls to sanctity, encouraging them to get close to him, to feel united to the Church, to extend the kingdom of God to all hearts. Jesus wants to see us dedicated, faithful, responsive. He wants us to love him. It is his desire that we be holy, very much his own.”
This is something that the great Doctor of the Church, St. Bernard of Clairvaux, spoke about. Living during the twelfth century, St. Bernard wrote a series of sermons for Advent. Often called the last “Father of the Church” in the Christian West, his words are still relevant even as we experience the Advent season in the twenty-first century. He reminds us that we are in actuality preparing for “two advents”:
“In today’s Gospel we heard the Lord’s invitation to be watchful: ‘[Watch, therefore, for you do not know on what day your Lord is coming’ (Matthew 24:42) … The exhortation to be watchful resounds many times in the liturgy, especially in Advent, a season of preparation not only for Christmas, but also for Christ’s definitive and glorious coming at the end of time. It therefore has a distinctly eschatological meaning and invites the believer to spend every day and every moment in the presence of the One ‘who is and who was and who is come’ (Revelation 1:4), to whom the future of the world and of man belongs. This is Christian hope!”
This weekend the church year begins anew as we begin the holy season of Advent, a name derived from the Latin word adventus, which means “the coming.” This holy season looks to the two comings of Christ; first, we look forward to our Lord’s return in glory at the end of time, and second, beginning December 17th, we look back, remembering that our Lord came to us in time to be one with us in all things but sin. While it may not have the same depth of austerity as Lent, Advent is also a penitential season where the words of the Prophets echo to us from ages past to prepare a way for the Lord in our hearts and lives.
We hope to provide you with resources and prayerful opportunities to help grow your relationship with Christ. Advent is a time of waiting and anticipation. It is a season that reminds us to slow down and to spend time in prayer and reflection. As you journey through the Advent season, please know you and your guests are welcome at any of the offerings listed. If you have any questions, please contact the Parish Offices at 522-3342.
Novena in Honor of the Immaculate Conception